11 lifehacks, how to overcome the fear of rejection
Everyone is afraid of being rejected, but not everyone is trying to overcome this fear. Entrepreneur Jia Jiang has been making ridiculous requests to strangers for 100 days and recording it on camera. Then he called it bounce therapy.
- Not everyone is ready to meet you halfway. When faced with a refusal, ask for an explanation of the reason and try to work around it.
- It is much more difficult to negotiate with several people at once than with one person. When you ask for something, it's better to communicate with a person face to face.
- Try to make the interlocutor laugh, then communication will definitely not switch to raised tones.
- When you ask for something, it is very important to seem confident in yourself.
- If you are asked for something, but you do not have time to fulfill this request, offer alternative solutions to the problem. Say, for example: "Unfortunately, I can't do it now because… But I know some good specialists who can help you."
- If you are kind and friendly during the refusal, it will be impossible to get angry at you.
- Even if your offer is very attractive, you may still be refused if you do not give a convincing reason why the interlocutor should agree. The next time you offer something, be sure to use the words "because".
- Don't forget to always ask why after the word "no".
- The world is full of amazing experiences and people that we don't even know about because of our constant haste.
- if you are very worried before voicing a request, then stop and take a deep breath. You will feel much more confident when you act slowly and carefully pronounce every word.
- People tend to speak well of others. Don't be afraid to ask someone to compliment you and do the compliments yourself. You'll see, both you and the interlocutor will become a little happier.
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